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Sorry guys and gals. I've had enough
Love the forum and cars keeping mind but life in itself is too much
Just moved house and arguing already so I think it's me that's the problem
The world is better off without a git like me

Can't go on like this. Sorry
 

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Hi Andy....
I'm not sure what's getting you down,but a problem aired is a problem shared.......
OR if you just fancy a chat,msg me and il gladly look forward to a chat at this unearthly hour.
All the best mate, Dean
 

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Happy to chat also Andy. I've been through so much **** you wouldn't believe, you might end the conversation and think **** I'm lucky lol.
 

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Andy if your reading this , this is the first post I've looked at over my cup of tea before work, please talk to someone on here Pm them what ever , each and everyone one of us has had troubles and I'm sorry for how you feeling, but please just Pm someone here, i really hope you do ,
 

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Mate

You are not the problem. Moving house is a very stressful event and can test the best of people. First, let us know you are ok. Second we are hear to listen day or night. Talk to us, shout at us if you need to, that's what this club is for, to have other members to lean on when we are struggling to carry the weight.

The sign over the door may say FocusRSoc.com but it reads "We are family and look after each other.com"
 

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If you're depressed then it's your coping mechanisms being overwhelmed by the stress you are encountering. But this can change. It's like being asked to carry four bags when you can only manage three.
Asking for help with that extra load is a good first step and a great place to start is the local GP or a good friend. Also avoid any major or rash decisions at this difficult time as you may not be thinking straight just yet.

Thing is people will help and things will change. It's taking that first step that's important....
 

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Maybe @Clive will have other contact details like email or something , I think each and every one of us can empathise strongly with this, I just hope he's ok, I don't even know him but feel terrible worried
 

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Nice one Clive, I was wondering about that too, a pretty sick joke if his account has been hacked...
Hope you're ok Andy at any rate!
 

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Does anyone have a way to contact Andy directly (telephone numbers etc) rather than email?

Even if it is just to find out if its a prank or whatever. The wording is somewhat concerning, Admins, is it possible to forward what deletes you have to the Police so they could trace / follow up?
 

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I'm still here. Had a long walk alone out on the moors. Didn't get in until 5 this morning and just woke up
If I could tell you all what's going on but I can't yet.
Only thing I can say is I've just been accused too many times of things I haven't done and the missus accuses me every time we are out I'm either chatting up women or eyeing them up. Even driving I get accused
Can't do anything at all now and it's getting worse each day.

Love her to bits and she has her own problems and I truly understand what she is going through but she is pushing me away

She is getting the help she needs,

I do apologise for this thread but had nobody to talk to or tell anyone how I was feeling last night
I'm not the type to do something to harm myself, just felt id be better off out of everyone's way by been alone. That's how I just feel now. Alone
Do I leave the missus despite only been in our home for just one week?? Or stand by her and support her like I always do ??

Thanks everyone for your posts and concerns. There are truly nice people out there who care even for someone they have never met
 
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