Still standard here running jwr100 map, will probably buy a new standard one when replacement time comes, and/or rebuild/refurbish the used one in a friction materials specialist and install it back. The reason is that any aftermarket kit uses single mass flywheels but I fear they will rattle too much and also create problems to the gearbox or to the engine, for some reason Ford fitted a double mass one, no?
There is not a problem with the friction material of the standard clutch discs, it is of a very good quality, very similar to that used for the Focus ST and also the kit for the Volvo S60R and v70R.
The problem that needs addressing particularly is that of the clamping force exerted by the standard pressed steel covers, given that the standard friction material is fine....to a point.
You also have to take into account the backing material used behind the friction material which effects the distribution of the pressure, this material, along with the facing friction material is damaged and denatured by excessive heat. Then you get to the material out of which the centre plate is made, how it is formed etc.
Some aftermarket friction materials are also very agressive and wear their mating surfaces.
This Volvo gearbox is in use in its hundreds of thousand arround the world and is pretty robust and long lived, however you are right to say the removal of the standard DMF can sometimes causes a gear cluster to vibrate at idle, most Volvo owners change to Redline Heavyweight Shockproof gear oil if this irritates them having fitted an SMF.
If you are concerned about the lack of springing, compliance etc that comes with removing the DMF and replacing it with an SMF you might consider fitting the aforementioned Volvo 'R' clutch kit which has a sprung disc. That R kit costs a few bob more than the similar RS kit but is a better design with that sprung disc and an additional web in its cover that prevents some of the flexing. I can also offer my KU kit with a sprung disc but that does not have the torque handling capability of the solid AP disc.
Regards, Don.